Dear Reader,

Please don’t let this discourage you. Standing is a good thing. It is the right thing to do, even, particularly if God has affirmed it and called you to do it. Keep it up as long as God leads you to do so.

I was going to leave this unsaid. I was just going to live my life and not record it here, but I don’t want anyone to be mislead. Some of you know me in person. A very few readers have actually spoken to me face-to-face, even though I write under a Pseudonym here.

I’m done. I could go into all of the reasons. I could spout off the circumstances, the depth of my pain, and even the ways God is encouraging me to put this in my past. I know that none of it ultimately matters to you. You will simply assume that I have become a broken apostate Kool-aid drinker, who has abandoned faith for reason and given up God’s plan.

So be it.

Pray that God will reveal His will, whatever it may be. My stand is over. May your stand be as blessed as mine was cursed.

Much Love,



My old about page message:

I am a man standing in the gap for his marriage. I did have more to say, but I’ve decided to keep it private, between myself and God. Be well, friends and pray for me.

  • Pray for me.
  • Pray for my wife.
  • Pray for our family.



  1. My prayers for God’s healing in your marriage. I know it is a hard season, but stand firm while leaning on the Rock our Lord and Savior and press hard into His loving arms for all your comfort He will meet your needs. ~ Blessings in Jesus ~

  2. May the God of love continue to strengthen you as you keep your eyes fixed on Him, the author and finisher of our faith, blessings and increased faith in Jesus name, Amen.

  3. I will say a prayer for you. As a man it is hard, everyone tells you to move on, they expect you to be less caring and just move to the next woman in your life. Well I feel your pain, agony and heartache. My email address is part of the submission, feel free to reach out as I am a fellow male stander.

  4. Read your recent blog posts. I’m standing for my marriage too. My wife just admitted to me she’s dating the man I’ve known she was dating all along. Hard to hear even though it’s not a surprise. Praying for you brother.

  5. I don’t know who you are but your post are like reading my thoughts straight out of my own head. My husband left 4months ago and is with another woman…not sure that matters but I thought I would at least let u know I get it!

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